There are two main things that has become controversy
about what should be begun in our children’s childhood; education or playing
time. Some people think that children should begin their education as early in
their lives as possible. They believe that education is the most important.
Others think that children should spend most of their time playing. Since one
can only be young once, and once a child goes to school he/she can never go
back for the missing times as a child. Therefore, their early life should be
filled with a happy playing time. Here I am going to give some points of view
about both sides of opinion.
It is important that some basic logical and verbal skills
be learnt as early as possible. The argument goes on to assert that skills such
as basic calculus and foreign language are much more easily accepted by the
children when they are very young. Moreover, if children start their education
early, they can have more time to perfect their knowledge later during their
lives. In other words, a child with a lot of
responsibilities is better prepared for life in the future. He or she
knows how to organize the day also knows how to deal with some problems and as
all becomes more independent.
In contrast to the previous opinion, playing is important
to be included in children’s childhood. This opinion comes according to the
fact that their whole life will be most probably filled with working and
studying so they should at least have their childhood. Furthermore, physical
skills, which are developed by playing, are just as important as intellectual
one. Just because they are playing does not mean they are not learning.
Children can still learn a lot of things
through educational toys such as building blocks, puzzles, colouring books. In
this way, they can learn at their own pace without any pressure of getting good
marks or striving to keep up with the achievements of their classmates. When children are not forced to go to school
at an early age, they can spend more time with their parents. In fact, it is
often claimed that children do not need teachers other than parents since
parents know them best and are most committed to teaching them.
A child’s social, mental, and emotional skills are
developed to prepare him/her in his/her role as a member of the society once he
goes to school. His social life starts to develop as interaction with children
of his age. However, meeting new people and doing things he is not prepared can
be traumatic with children. It can also be source of inferiority to children
who can not cope with the demands of school. Children should begin their formal
education when they are ready and should be allowed to study and learn at their
own pace. The fears and phobias in adults do not come when they are old and
grown-up but they come from our childhood and most started when children begin
their formal education.
Humans are only young once. If we allow our children to
begin their formal education at a very early age, we will deprive them of their
youth. Once they are sent to school, the harsh reality of life is presented to
them. Their innocence is lost as they begin to do things on their own, struggle
to cope with the demands of their schoolwork and adapt with children of different
personalities. It can be traumatic for them. That is why children should be
allowed to spend their time playing and enjoy their life as long as they can.
With both sides presented, I agree that children should
be allowed to spend their time playing while they are young because once we get
into the real world, there is no turning back. I think that children should
spend their early childhood the way they like best such as playing and having
fun with friends. They can still learn while playing because learning does not
only come from formal education. So, let the children enjoy their youth
happily.